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8 April 2024Greetings, Cosmic Companions!
As we traverse the Corridor of Eclipses from March 25 to April 8, 2024, we enter a phase rich in emotional upheaval, as seen through an astrological lens. This period offers a unique opportunity to delve into the psychological phenomenon of how expectations mold our emotional experiences.
Consider this: the human psyche is wired to experience one dominant emotion at a time. If fear is the guiding emotion, it eclipses the possibility of love, whether for a deity, oneself, or others. But beneath this simple surface lies a complex interplay of expectations and resultant emotions, often so fleeting they pass unnoticed.
Take, for instance, the scenario of a shopper enchanted by a pair of elegant shoes. The initial joy sparked by the expectation of owning and wearing them can quickly sour to disappointment if the shoes are uncomfortable or beyond budget.
Similarly, a corporate employee, fueled by the expectation of recognition and reward, may find his enthusiasm turning to resentment if his efforts go unnoticed. In a social setting, a person’s efforts to attract attention may shift from anticipation to frustration if the desired response isn’t received.
This is equally true in long-term relationships, where unspoken expectations can lead to profound emotional shifts, as in the case of a couple who, after years of dating, face the reality of their differing expectations regarding marriage. The essence here isn’t about what we desire – be it material possessions or personal relationships – but rather how the fulfillment or denial of these desires evokes diverse emotional responses.
Just like children, adults are driven by the pursuit of gratification and are impacted by its absence. This leads us to ponder: should we focus on understanding our emotions or our expectations? Living without expectations is an art form in itself, rooted not in innate ability but in a deep-seated trust in the divine or the universe’s plan.
True faith lies not just in belief, but in trusting that life’s challenges guide us towards unexpected blessings, if only we’re receptive. When emotions do arise, the goal isn’t just awareness, but the joy in acknowledging the vibrancy of life. Recognizing the silver lining in every experience enriches self-understanding.
Our perceived negative traits, like envy or competitiveness, can be the very drivers of innovation and personal growth. They are not flaws but facets of our complex emotional makeup, each holding potential for discovery and transformation. In sum, embrace even the subtlest expectations and all emotions. As the Beatles sang, “Let it be.” Breathe in, breathe out, and live through these feelings. Remember, emotions aren’t debts to be repaid; they’re personal experiences shaped by your perceptions and expectations. So, why not transform the negative into positive, pessimism into optimism? In doing so, your pursuit of happiness might just transcend the dichotomy between inner truth and societal expectations.
Trust the Process!
– Iryna Wood , Relationship Specialist with Astrological Expertise